ABBA KYARI AS A METAPHOR FOR MODERN RELATIONSHIPS
By: Salako Onileowo
salakofish@gmail.com
Top relationships are basically sustained by influence peddling. Influence itself is fueled by patronage, a rub my back-I rub your back system. That is why the lines of association for influential people are blurred.
That is why Abba Kyari was in Oba. That is why Hushpuppi had Abba Kyari’s phone number.
Most relationships are simply not based on love. They are purely transactional. You are as good as the value of assistance you provide.
This is the only reason why loyalty is in itself not absolute.
Messi now plays for PSG in France.
A person in need will be definitely loyal to his current benefactor. It is like that in politics, administration, family affair or love relationships.
Just that in modern love relationships, it is a burden. A party deliberately hands over her life challenge in the name of a love affair.
Just requests. Never a time to reciprocate.
And if the burdened guy declines or even delays to provide at a certain point, they will call him broke.
What manner of accursed love is this?
It is not love if you only take and take and never give.
You cannot buy for yourself your own basic needs. You depend on your partner to fill your vehicle tank, buy you data, subscriptions, feed you, clothe you and pay your rent.
You cant even buy yourself shawarma!?
In this instance, any shifting loyalty is nothing but a betrayal.
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